Let’s start with the definition of what Financial Domination really is. Financial Domination is a form of psychological and sexual play where one party has consent to have financial control over the other party. The party in control of the other’s money are often called FinDoms or FinDommes, while the ones doing the paying are called money slaves, pay pigs, cash cows, etc. Some of you may be wondering who in the world would want to do that? Who would enjoy being humiliated, emasculated, sissified and controlled in such a manner? The answer is simple. Someone who no one tells no. Someone who has all the control, the power in their life who goes unchallenged. Most times it's very rich men from professional backgrounds who want to spend the money on ‘Goddesses’ they truly believe deserve such things and the funny thing is, the Goddess usually isn’t their wife. If they have a wife, there is a rather large possibility that she is unaware of his fetish. Some money slaves or pay pigs never meet their Goddess, some do. Some have sexual relations with them and others don’t have sexual relations at all. It really depends on the person and their dynamic. There are money slaves that give gifts such as ipads, some even pay their Goddess’ rent for a year, some give the gifts of cars, houses but one thing's for certain, all things are discussed beforehand. A pay pig will never be made to give more than what they are financially able. Meaning that they can’t be forced to buy their Mistress a house if that isn’t within their means. Another fun tidbit is that some men will give these women total control of their financial assets. The woman will allow them to pay their rent, buy their necessities and then the woman spends the rest. There are some men who enjoy the idea of black mail, so the woman will fulfill that fantasy by making him give her gifts or pay her bill under the assumption that if he doesn’t she will black mail him with something that could hurt his career or end a marriage or something drastic. However, unless they have already agreed upon it before hand, she really won’t black mail him. Just like when it comes to any other kinks and fetishes, everything is discussed beforehand. There are rules and guidelines, there is CONSENT above all else. It is very important that communication is straightforward as it is key in any relationship but especially relationships like this. Without communication there is too much room for error. If this sounds like something you would be into, be sure to do your research. Read everything from every viewpoint so that you know exactly what you are getting yourself into. You’re bound to run into a couple of duds, it happens but don’t give up, it takes time to find your gems and that goes for both the Goddess and pay slave. Don’t forget, keep it safe, sane and consensual. Communication is key.
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