Q:Do you have a list of clients that you see regularly that you have formed a special bond with? Would you feel 'cheated' if they saw another girl like how hairdressers get mad at you if you get your hair cut somewhere else?
A:I do have a very few kind souls who have known me since the beginning and I would be surprised if they started branching out but never angry. This is far too personal a service to take someone's choices personally. If they ghosted me I would be hurt but again, not angry. I don't have time for that kind of anger in my life when there are so many true injustices in the world.
Q:If a client decided to make you a present, what would you be happy to receive? What is your wish-list (maybe flowers, lingerie, parfume, music albums, books etc.)?
A:Flowers are always sweet, lingerie is lovely but can be dicey, and really no one should buy perfume as a gift unless you know them quite well. My favorite gift is your favorite book. What better way to share outside our time together than to hold the same story in our heads?
Q:What makes you notable among other providers? What exactly, you believe, you're good at? What makes your service unique? What is your favorite kind of service?
A:Jack of all trades but master of none, often is better than master of one. I don't have any niche cornered but I have very nearly universal appeal and in nearly every category I am 8/10. I also have very, very good hands.
Q:How do you prefer a client to make an appointment? What information is important for you? Is screening required before the appointment?
A:EMAIL EMAIL EMAIL! i have an assistant who works very hard but if you don't email her, she can't do her job and it's less likely that you and I will get together. And yes, I have a few different options for screening, all listed on my website.
Q:Do you ever get nervous before meeting a client? Is it kind of like preparing for a first date?
A:I host so I have a lot of control over the atmosphere. That helps but sometimes, if something's a bit odd, I still get nervous and skittish. It's part of the game.
Q:What sort of personality qualities does someone need to possess to be a successful escort?
A:Flexibility above all. You'll see so much out here, you need to be able to roll with the punches and love it. Punches in the figurative sense, of course. If someone is actually punching you then a good pair of running shoes is probably your best quality.
Q:If someone wished to become an escort, how would you recommend they go about it?
A:Read. Read the living daylights out of blogs, FAQ sections on other people's websites, books for and by sex workers... just read.
Q:What are your dreams, future goals and aspirations? Short and long term?
A:No way I can answer that in a reasonable amount of time, ha!
Q:What types of clients do you deny to meet? Are there any restrictions?
A:I can smell a boundary pusher a mile away. If I choose to see them anyway, I don't pull any punches when it comes to my comfort and my boundaries but at this point in my career I really don't need to see them.
Q:What is the strangest request you have ever had from a client?
A:That will remain between he and me.
Q:Can you tell us a bit about your first escort job?
A:I remember him very clearly. I remember how I felt walking away, thinking to myself "I can't believe I just got paid for that!!!" and I've never lost that astonished joy.
Q:What did you want to be when you were growing up?
A:When I was twelve I wanted to be a woman in a four poster bed with a patient cadre of respectful men waiting to receive my highly coveted sexual attention. Whatever else I wanted to do between then and now, I've never lost that desire.
Q:Has being an escort changed your view of men?
A:I'm a bit more forgiving in many ways and far less in others. I empathize with the situation many men find themselves in when dealing with expectations and relationships but I have no patience for self-absorbed bitching.
Q:How long have you been working as an escort?
A:Off and on for 5 years. I took a break from escorting to offer sensual massage and even went to school for it so I am quite good.
Q:What's the best bit about being an escort?
A:Not sure I can pick one. I think for me it's the security and independence. I'm financially free and that makes everything I do that much better.
Q:What don't you like about being an escort?
A:Filling out advertising websites ;-) But really, what I don't like is constantly feeling like I have to prove myself to strangers. I'm real, I've been around a while, and I have nothing to prove anymore so I get sick of people asking.
Q:How often do you work per week?
A:Depends on the week. I've done as many as a dozen massages in a week and other weeks I see no one. I'm busy enough.
Q:What are your turn-offs?
A:Overbearing attitudes, pain, and bad bad hygiene.
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