Q:How do you prefer a client to make an appointment? What information is important for you? Is screening required before the appointment?
A:I love talking to my clients. I'm perfectly fine with however a client chooses to contact me, as long as they've read my listing, sent me what I require for verification, and are serious about booking. My usual screening requirements are as follows: Name Age Desired Appointment Date/Time Desired Appointment Length Photo (No Vulgar Images) At Least Two of the Following (Accepted at my Discretion): PD Username (if applicable) Provider References Work Email LinkedIn Profile ID/Driver's License Public Meeting The point being: I need to be confident that you are who you say you are, that you're a safe person, and that we both have some skin in the game.
Q:Do you ever get nervous before meeting a client? Is it kind of like preparing for a first date?
A:I always feel confident when meeting clients, yet thrilled. It feels all at once like a first date, and a meeting with an old friend.
Q:What sort of personality qualities does someone need to possess to be a successful escort?
A:Empathy, bravery, patience, mindfulness, self-discipline, confidence, adaptability, passion, and drive. I believe some of those qualities may be innate, but some can absolutely be learned and honed.
Q:If someone wished to become an escort, how would you recommend they go about it?
A:I can't say exactly, because everyone's journey is different. People have different comfort zones, different needs, and different privileges. I will say a few things I wish I knew when I started... Trust yourself. Trust your instinct. Know that it's not ever mean, wrong, or bad for business to say no. Don't ever let desperation or greed rule you. Respect your boundaries, and don't ever put up with anyone who is anything less than absolutely respectful of them. You'll find the clients who treat you how you deserve to be treated. You're worth it. Keep yourself safe, always demand just as much screening information as it takes for you to feel comfortable, and don't allow anyone to put you in situations you aren't confident are in your best interest. No amount of money is worth compromising your safety.
Q:What are your dreams, future goals and aspirations? Short and long term?
A:That's such an intimate conversation, and one I'm passionate about at that. So, if you'd like to know you'd better ask me in person.
Q:What types of clients do you deny to meet? Are there any restrictions?
A:If you're a safe, respectful, kind, enthusiastically consenting adult who follows my screening instructions, respects the boundaries, and donates generously then I'm happy to consider having you as a client. That being said, I am selective about who I see, which enables me to be genuine, caring and attentive to all my clients.
Q:What is the strangest request you have ever had from a client?
A:Again, I don't kiss and tell. Even if the kisses are strange...
Q:Can you tell us a bit about your first escort job?
A:I don't kiss and tell.
Q:What did you want to be when you were growing up?
A:I'm still growing up. I adamantly believe that growth is non-linear, there's no prescribed timeline for life, and that people should learn, grow, mature, and keep their hearts and minds open to all possibilities until the day they die.
Q:Has being an escort changed your view of men?
A:No. It did however reinforce it.
Q:How long have you been working as an escort?
A:Just shy of a year. I guess time does fly when you're having fun...
Q:How did you get into the escort business?
A:Through my love of massage, my love of people, and my love of...well, you can get what else. It seemed like just the right fit...
Q:What's the best bit about being an escort?
A:The vibrant moments of connection are the best part of the job. I also love the freedom being an independent escort can allow.
Q:What don't you like about being an escort?
A:Society's overall stigmatization, misrepresentation, misunderstanding, and criminalization of escorts.
Q:How often do you work per week?
A:Though I see only a select number of clients, there's much more behind-the-scenes work to escorting than folks might think, especially when you're an independent companion. So, my weeks can be quite busy.
Q:What are your turn-offs?
A:I'm more turned on/off by the mental and emotional than the physical. Kind-hearted people are the sexiest. I guess I'm a bit of a size queen...for big hearts.
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