Q:Do you have a list of clients that you see regularly that you have formed a special bond with? Would you feel 'cheated' if they saw another girl like how hairdressers get mad at you if you get your hair cut somewhere else?
A:Yes of course you develop those bonds. No I never feel cheated on.
Q:How do you handle first-timers or those who have limited experience with escort services? What are your suggestions to such clients to make your encounter the most enjoyable?
A:I'm not newbie friendly. Meeting anyone for the first time is always a little scary. Meeting someone who works in the adult industry can be even more so. This is an intimidating thing sometimes. Whether I'm meeting new photographer or a new director or a new person who is wanting to just spend some private time, it's new. New can be fun and exciting but it can also cause a little anxiety and nervousness. Believe me when I say I understand. The best advice I can give you is to dig into this website. I do several photo shoots a month and I shoot with many new photographers with multiple levels of experience and everyone approaches their encounter differently based on what they want to get out of it. Same applies with every aspect of the adult industry. Whether I am shooting pictures or video or spending time privately with you every encounter will be different. Some people approach our encounters very professionally and others very casually. You will always get what you put into things. If you want something more relaxed and casual approach it that way. If you want a more professional encounter the same applies. Treat me the way you want to be treated and more often than not your approach will be mirrored. If you are nervous I'm also going to be a bit nervous. I do my best to be as approachable and inviting as possible and if you do the same things generally run smoothly and whatever reason we are meeting will feel more comfortable.
Q:What makes you notable among other providers? What exactly, you believe, you're good at? What makes your service unique? What is your favorite kind of service?
A:What Makes you a Return Client? I’ve been in the sex industry since 1998, I know, I know I’m telling on myself. 2018 will mark two solid decades in this business. That is not only unheard of but so unusual that it’s almost an unbelievable amount of time. I’ve worked as a stripper, an escort, a legal prostitute/brothel worker, and in the porn side of things. I’ve seen a lot in my two decades, here are some thoughts on this subject. I’ve seen providers come and go like I change underwear. Some are just not cut out for this business or hobby as it is now called. Those that are and stay have some things in common, one we recognize that this isn’t about sex, sure that’s a part of this, of course, but we do realize that there is more to it than just laying on our backs shouting oh baby occasionally. Two we have learned that those who use these services, they have two things in common, one they are lonely, and two they need a connection. People who use a provider they are looking for something, something they aren’t getting at home or aren’t finding out in the real world. They need someone to listen, to let them know they matter, their needs matter, their wants matter. That someone out there cares enough to make them feel alive again or maybe just have a release. The tension, the stress of life those things wear you down. There is nothing better than having that one person to focus all of their attention on you, to pamper you, to take care of you at the end of a rough day or week. The time spent with good providers isn’t just sex, it is quality time. An adventure, a journey an actual experience that creates a memory or an impression that should make you smile afterwards. That release of stress and tension, well that is the providers job, in whatever way works best for each and everyone you see. As a provider you aren’t offering sex, you are offering a fantasy, one filled with passion, stress relief, free from baggage and drama that means more than the money. Being that fantasy, being top of your field is being able to provide that one memory, and repeating it several different ways for each and every client so that each time IS the first time, their best time and one that they want to repeat often. That is what I love about this work. Being able to create that. All of my clients are special, they all come to find a special place in my memory. They are not their wallets, they are just people. Lonely people that need that special connection and I’m happy to be that connection. That is, in my experience, what makes a date worth repeating and in all of my years that is the greatest advice I can hand out to the new generation of providers, BE repeat worthy. Just my two cents, your mileage may vary.
Q:How do you prefer a client to make an appointment? What information is important for you? Is screening required before the appointment?
A:I go through this in depth on my website. Screening is required. For Clients: Screeing is very important to Safety, both yours and my own. Clients, like yourself, have all the advantage. You can learn all about me, see my photo's and video's. You can read my blogs and bio, you will have a good idea of who you are seeing before we meet. On the other hand, I know nothing about you. Through screening I am getting a small glimpse into whether or not I will be safe with you. I Still won't know what you look like, or much about you. This is why I screen. Some clients are curious about what exactly we screen for. I have a series of questions I routinely ask other providers when screening a client. I will ask if you are LEO, (Otherwise Known As: Law Enforcement Officer) I will ask if you haggle prices in person or if you pay the agreed upon rate and whether or not you routinely tip. I will ask if there are any known substance abuse issues. I will ask about your hygiene. I will ask if you respected bounderies and treated her with respect. I will ask if you were rough with her. I will ask if she felt safe spending time with you. I will ask whether or not you acted like a gentleman. I will ask if you attempted to rob or harm her physically in any manner. I will ask if you respected her time bounderies. I will ask if she has seen you more than once. Were there any STD/STI issue's. I will ask about your hygiene. I will ask whether or not you played unsafe with protection or tried anything shady while wearing protection. I will ask if there is anything else she thinks I might need to know. Only a Verified provider can honestly tell me these things, this is why your referance MUST be a Verifyable one, with reviews on a Verified website. This is how I keep myself safe and by proxy my clients. Screening isn't negotiable. If using referances to be screened, TWO, non backpage providers, who are known, meaning they have ads on a reputable website and reviews with a history of being a provider, will be needed. I will not accept a name and phone number. I must have an ad link to do my own verification of them as a provider before I will trust their word and judgement about any potential clients. If you are a member of ECCIE or P411 or BlueJello, and have a history of writing reviews on credible sites or have been given an "okay" by known providers, screening becomes much simpler. In this case I will only require your handle.
Q:Do you ever get nervous before meeting a client? Is it kind of like preparing for a first date?
A:Always, there are always nervous gitters.
Q:What sort of personality qualities does someone need to possess to be a successful escort?
A:You have to be a people person, adaptable, intelligent and fun.
Q:If someone wished to become an escort, how would you recommend they go about it?
A:Start at the brothels in Parahump, Nevada. Spend a year or two.
Q:What are your dreams, future goals and aspirations? Short and long term?
A:I'm living them.
Q:What types of clients do you deny to meet? Are there any restrictions?
A:Of course there are, If they are rude or discuss or demand sex I blacklist them, We won't be a good fit.
Q:What is the strangest request you have ever had from a client?
A:I'll keep that too myself.
Q:Can you tell us a bit about your first escort job?
A:I was very nervous. He was very patient, almost school teachering me. It was a fun date.
Q:What did you want to be when you were growing up?
A:A dancer
Q:Has being an escort changed your view of men?
A:Oh yes but in a realistic way
Q:How long have you been working as an escort?
A:I've been in the adult industry for a while and we can leave it at that without throwing numbers around.
Q:How did you get into the escort business?
A:A wonderful offer fell in my lap one day.
Q:What's the best bit about being an escort?
A:I love meeting new people
Q:What don't you like about being an escort?
A:Demanding obnoxious people
Q:How often do you work per week?
A:Two-Three Hours
Q:What are your turn-offs?
A:rudeness and bad hygiene.
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