Q: What are your turn-offs?
A: Poor hygiene, general rudeness
Q: What is the strangest request you have ever had from a client?
A: Hmm, I respect my clients privacy and don't really discuss what we talk about or do when together
Q: What types of clients do you deny to meet? Are there any restrictions?
A: I prefer my client be within 20 years of my age, so 34 to 74. There are exceptions but I absolutely require he is 21 years. New clients go through a brief screening process. I choose not to meet any client that was no-call no-show two times without paying a cancellation fee. If there was any type of payment issue it needs to be resolved before meeting again
Q: What are your dreams, future goals and aspirations? Short and long term?
A: World peace
Q: If someone wished to become an escort, how would you recommend they go about it?
A: I would suggest they utilize resources provided by sex worker advocacy groups, like Sex Worker Outreach Project, National Harm Reduction Coalition or Mo-Ho Justice. Ideally women choosing to escort would be paired a mentor, someone with several year experience.
Q: What sort of personality qualities does someone need to possess to be a successful escort?
A: Confidence, comfortable with her sexuality, It helps to have all the basic customer service skills - being on time, reliable, communicating well and time management. Also escorting is not just about the time spent with client. There is promoting yourself through advertising and direct contact, preparing your space and your self for a session, and so on.
Q: How do you prefer a client to make an appointment? What information is important for you? Is screening required before the appointment?
A: I prefer you text with any general questions or requests. I offer same day meetings as well as advance appointments. Let me know when, where and for how long - and we can go from there.
Q: What makes you notable among other providers? What exactly, you believe, you're good at? What makes your service unique? What is your favorite kind of service?
A: Come see me and I'll show you.
Q: If a client decided to make you a present, what would you be happy to receive? What is your wish-list (maybe flowers, lingerie, parfume, music albums, books etc.)?
A: Unexpected gifts are appreciated for the thoughtful gesture. I have a wish list on Amazon named Hot4teachkc School Supplies.
Q: How often do you work per week?
A: I'm available most afternoon and early evenings
Q: Do you have a list of clients that you see regularly that you have formed a special bond with? Would you feel 'cheated' if they saw another girl like how hairdressers get mad at you if you get your hair cut somewhere else?
A: I have many regular clients and many see multiple providers. Variety is part of the appeal and this does not bother me.
Q: What's the best bit about being an escort?
A: The freedom to make your own rules, choose your clients, to work as much or as little as you like.
Q: What don't you like about being an escort?
A: No health insurance, no sick days, no retirement plan, no workman's comp and no paid holidays.The social stigma doesn't bother me alot, but it's there. Job security is low. The legalities. Criminalization results in higher risks to me, blocks my access to resources, and leaves me vulnerable to violence. But mostly the no paid holidays.
Q: How long have you been working as an escort?
A: Fourteen years
Q: Has being an escort changed your view of men?
A: The vast majority of my clients are kind, polite, and respectful. I've been very fortunate.
Q: What did you want to be when you were growing up?
A: A writer or journalist, a Dallas Cowboys cheerleader, a veterinarian, an artist, a teacher. I think I have actually done all of those... Err...in one form or another.
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