I'm quite aware of the need for discretion when engaging a provider, especially with the amount of felonious behavior impacting this lifestyle these days. However their are some who've become keen to this (falsified need for disclosure) to further use as a ruse to therefore guise their most likely intentions. This in turn has unfortunately left the provider vulnerable to the most unscrupulous activities one might imagine. For the most part a high percentage of these providers located on the internet can easily be verified if the time was taken out to do so by you the hobbyist. If by happenstance she can not be verified than why insist on pressing your luck? Every girl who glitters I can guarantee you isn't gold, therefore not worth the gamble. Yet again while in the admist of searching for that pliable and pleasant Playmate you should have something to offer in more of a physical form in the field of verification other than the typical verbal response "I can promise you!" Or "Honestly this is my first time doing this!" Most likely we all have some sort of "something" that may ensure the other he/she safety is just as pertinent as the existence of his/her own. Claiming not to have a provider reference, not being a member of any sites or forums, or not being in possession of any viable property that could possibly ensure the engagement says more than one needs to say...personally I'll have to decline the offer. So pls gentleman for the safety of the provider and comfortability of the engagement ensure you're capable of being verified. When you do not it clearly shows your only concern is you!